- 1. They tell you upfront that they are not interested in a relationship.
- 2. They tell you “I’m super busy”.
- They are basically saying to you that “I’m selfish, and it’s all about me”.
- It takes a minimum of 100 hours of face time in order to establish trust in a relationship.
- Say to them, “You know what? Then reach out to me when you have the time ok?”.
- 3. He’s lazy about texting you back.
- When someone is lazy about communication, then it’s an indication of disinterest.
- 4. He’s not really asking you questions about who you are, just surface communication.
- Genuine connection comes from intimacy.
- 5. He’s not trying to make you feel special.
- He’s just focused on what he can get, instead of what he can give.
- If a man is not trying to make you feel special, then he’s just not that interested in you.
- 6. He says that “I’m a mess, and you deserve better”.
- This is a guy without balls. He’s got stuff going on in his life.
- It demonstrates a lack of self-love for himself. It’s not about “deserving”, it’s about honoring your self-esteem and self-confidence.
- When do you sleep with someone?
- CARES
- C – Comfortable. When you feel comfortable
- A – Aware. Be aware of the consequences. Women tend to bond quickly with a guy after sex, so beware of the consequences. You can have sex with a guy and he’ll never call you again afterwards.
- R – Real. Learn his real intentions. Ask better questions before you have sex with a guy.
- E – Exclusivity
- S – Safe. Practice safe sex.