I’ve been going through a lot of stress for the past two years after my soon-to-be-ex asked for a divorce in Dec 2021, and I found out about a lot of shady things he had been doing behind my back.
I found out during our tax appointment this year that he gave away another 6 digits to the other woman, and due to an early retirement account withdrawal, we ended up with a $10,000 tax penalty. I found out a month later that he took up another loan to give to that woman.
I don’t know what is going on with him. He told me back then that after he gave the first 6 digits to that woman that he was done with her. He told me recently that in the past 2 years, he has developed feelings for her and is hoping that one day she will want to be with him. Wanting a scammer to fall in love with you for falling for her scam???
I honestly don’t know if he’s going through some kind of psychosis. He has basically gone off the grid and I can hardly even get ahold of him. I’ve finally realized that there is nothing I can do to help him, especially because he doesn’t seem to think that he’s doing anything wrong, or that this woman is just scamming him.
I just want to get this divorce taken care of asap. It has been dragging on for too long and is wearing me out. I’ve been emailing and texting him a lot for the past few weeks asking him to get this done right away but nothing is getting done. He hardly even responds to my texts and emails.
How did I end up with this after 15 years of marriage? How can someone change so much to the point where he can no longer tell between right and wrong, or good and bad?
Like the wildflowers, I just want to be free. I belong somewhere I feel free…
Wildflowers
~ Tom Petty
You belong among the wildflowers
You belong in a boat out at sea
Sail away, kill off the hours
You belong somewhere you feel free
Run away, find you a lover
Go away somewhere all bright and new
I have seen no other
Who compares with you
You belong among the wildflowers
You belong in a boat out at sea
You belong with your love on your arm
You belong somewhere you feel free
Run away, go find a lover
Run away, let your heart be your guide
You deserve deepest of cover
You belong in that home by and by
You belong among the wildflowers
You belong somewhere close to me
Far away from your trouble and worry
You belong somewhere you feel free
You belong somewhere you feel free