1. They tell you upfront that they are not interested in a relationship.
2. They tell you “I’m super busy”.
They are basically saying to you that “I’m selfish, and it’s all about me”.
It takes a minimum of 100 hours of face time in order to establish trust in a relationship.
Say to them, “You know what? Then reach out to me when you have the time ok?”.
3. He’s lazy about texting you back.
When someone is lazy about communication, then it’s an indication of disinterest.
4. He’s not really asking you questions about who you are, just surface communication.
Genuine connection comes from intimacy.
5. He’s not trying to make you feel special.
He’s just focused on what he can get, instead of what he can give.
If a man is not trying to make you feel special, then he’s just not that interested in you.
6. He says that “I’m a mess, and you deserve better”.
This is a guy without balls. He’s got stuff going on in his life.
It demonstrates a lack of self-love for himself. It’s not about “deserving”, it’s about honoring your self-esteem and self-confidence.
When do you sleep with someone?
CARES
C – Comfortable. When you feel comfortable
A – Aware. Be aware of the consequences. Women tend to bond quickly with a guy after sex, so beware of the consequences. You can have sex with a guy and he’ll never call you again afterwards.
R – Real. Learn his real intentions. Ask better questions before you have sex with a guy.