I’m still paying for my ex’s cellphone (and car insurance) bill. I was going to get rid of it since he’s won’t pay for that as well.
However, he’s had that California number his entire life.
I decided to keep it in case his family, friends, colleagues, vendors and customers still call him on that number.
His sister texted him yesterday to tell him that his Dad has skin cancer and to please call him.
I texted him right away and gave his sister the number he’s using now as well.
His Dad sent this song to us. I don’t know if it was before or after he told his family that he’s getting divorced, and not to contact me anymore.
This song speaks of letting bygones be bygones.
His car getting totaled, me finding out that he had already started drinking for a year
People at his workplace drink alcohol while they work. How could he possibly stand a chance for that?
Him telling me right out that he wants a divorce after I found cans of beer in his backpack.
Me having lipoma surgery which took longer than expected and thus very painful
Finding out that he had already withdrawn tens and thousands of dollars from our joint bank accounts.
Finding out about his scammer whore.
Finding out that he withdrew one of his retirement account of $100k and gave that to that scammer whore.
All of this while we’re still married…
It all came down on me at once and I started having excruciating stomach pains everyday.
One night. after dinner, I started having excruciating stomach pain, passed out, hit my head, and vomited all of my food out.
Thankfully, he was there to turn my head to the side. Otherwise, I would have choked in my vomit and either die, or even worse, become a vegetable for life.
He caused it, then saved me from it ~ my angel and devil all in one…
We’ve been divorced for over 2 years now. I still can’t find him to pay me back hundreds and thousands of dollars he owes me, and to sign the financial papers according to our divorce decree.
There are times where I am so furious at him.
But then I ask myself what if he wasn’t there to turn my head to the side and I died that night?
Would I still care about all the money he still owes me, and the papers he still hasn’t signed?
I guess not….