πŸ’ 21 Day to Calm Aliveness Template

Table of Contents

1. Link To The Program:

Link: https://traumahealingaccelerated.mykajabi.com/library

2. Introduction:

A. The 5 Agreements:

a. We agree to be present to our best degree possible and for that to be good enough (for today):

b. We will not hold ourselves to the standard of perfectionism, we will simply start with what we can do right now:

c. We agree to personal responsibility:

  • We are each responsible for the energy we bring to the group and responsible for our reactions.
  • There is no space here for blaming others for our problems, our moods, or our reactions.  
  • There is no space here for saving others from their problems, moods, or reactions.  
  • We each agree to be responsible for ourselves, our experiences, and our journey.

d. We agree to keep this a safe space for everyone:

  • We do this by staying in the present moment and sharing what sensations we are noticing right now in our bodies.  
  • We agree to stay out of the past and its stories in order to keep this a safe space for everyone.   

e. We agree to take direction and not give advice. We are here to learn:

3. Week 2:

B. Day 8 (04/08/23): Having Your Back:

a. Watch “Day 8”: Having Your Back: Link

b. Watch “Recording of Live Session – Day 9” – Having Your Back: Link

c. Bonus: Attachment Style versus Attachment Trauma: Link

d. Song: I Am Open – Day 8 – Having Your Back: Link

1. Link To The Program:

Link: https://traumahealingaccelerated.mykajabi.com/library

2. Introduction:

A. The 5 Agreements:

a. We agree to be present to our best degree possible and for that to be good enough (for today):

b. We will not hold ourselves to the standard of perfectionism, we will simply start with what we can do right now:

c. We agree to personal responsibility:

  • We are each responsible for the energy we bring to the group and responsible for our reactions.
  • There is no space here for blaming others for our problems, our moods, or our reactions.  
  • There is no space here for saving others from their problems, moods, or reactions.  
  • We each agree to be responsible for ourselves, our experiences, and our journey.

d. We agree to keep this a safe space for everyone:

  • We do this by staying in the present moment and sharing what sensations we are noticing right now in our bodies.  
  • We agree to stay out of the past and its stories in order to keep this a safe space for everyone.   

e. We agree to take direction and not give advice. We are here to learn:

3. Week :

B. Day (04/01/23): Tracking Your Nervous System:

a. Watch “Day 1”: Tracking the Nervous System: Link

b. Watch “Recording of Live Session – Day 2” – Tracking Your Nervous System: Link

c. Bonus: Three States of the Nervous System: Link

i. The Three States of the Nervous System:

ii. Stress:

iii. Trauma:

d. Song: Brave – Day 1 – Tracking Your Nervous System: Link

C. Day 2 (04/02/23): Orienting:

a. Watch “Day 2”: Orienting: Link

b. Watch “Recording of Live Session – Day 3” – Orienting: Link

c. Bonus: What is Regulation?: Link

d. Song: I Could See Peace – Day 2 – Orienting: Link

D. Day 3 (04/03/23): Grounding:

a. Watch “Day 3”: Grounding: Link

b. Watch “Recording of Live Session – Day 4” – Grounding: Link

c. Bonus: Weighted Blanket: Link

d. Song: Here I Stand – Day 3 – Grounding: Link

E. Day 4 (04/04/23): Creating Space:

a. Watch “Day 4”: Creating Space: Link

b. Watch “Recording of Live Session – Day 5” – Creating Space: Link

c. Bonus: Dysregulation and the Freeze: Link

d. Song: Let It Go – Day 4 – Creating Space: Link

F. Day 5 (04/05/23): Voo:

a. Watch “Day 5”: Voo: Link

b. Watch “Recording of Live Session – Day 6” – Voo: Link

c. Bonus: The Body’s Survival Systems and Why We Accumulate Stress: Link

d. Song: Breathe – Day 5 – Voo: Link

G. Day 6 (04/06/23): Marking Territory:

a. Watch “Day 6”: Marking Territory: Link

b. Watch “Recording of Live Session – Day 7” – Marking Territory: Link

c. Bonus: Morning Routine for Resilience: Link

d. Song: Today I Choose – Day 6 – Marking Territory: Link

H. Day 7 (04/07/23): Containment:

a. Watch “Day 7”: Containment: Link

b. Watch “Recording of Live Session – Day 8” – Containment: Link

c. Bonus: The 2 Competing Survival States: Link

d. Song: In This and Every Moment – Day 7 – Containment: Link