I think we have a Twin Flame connection…
Twin Flame is an intense soul connection, sometimes called a “mirror soul,” thought to be a person’s other half. It’s based on the idea that sometimes one soul gets split into two bodies. One of the main characteristics of a twin flame relationship is that it will be both challenging and healing. This is due to the mirroring nature of a twin flame; they show you your deepest insecurities, fears, and shadows. But they also help you overcome them and vice versaβyour twin flame will be equally affected by you. (Source: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/twin-flames-signs-meaning-and-stages).
It feels like a love-hate relationship you have with yourself, that is being reflected upon by your twin flame partner.
After I moved in with him, our relationship started to change. Things got too real for us and we could no longer hide our true selves from each other anymore. Thinking back, the first sign of us having a twin flame connection was that not long after moving in together; feeling deceived and betrayed by how he was treating me differently than before, I said to him, “You’ve changed!”. He snapped back at me and said “No, you’re the one who has changed!”.
I was shocked! I felt like, he’s so damn lazy that he couldn’t even come up with something more original, and just decided to copy what I’ve said? Yet, could this be us mirroring each other?
I felt that he has changed, in his attitude towards me, but perhaps, I have as well??? Who changed first? What happened, I don’t know?
I think after struggling with him for so long, I’m afraid to once again be me… Like a chameleon, I metamorphosed in order to keep peace. I gave up what I truly believe in: communication, intimacy, and the expression of love – to the point where I’ve lost myself…..
I think he reflects the shadow side of me which doesn’t believe that I am deserving of love…
Where Did All the Good Times Go?
by Dennis Yost & the Classics IV
We lived in the country when I was a child
You lived up the highway, ’bout half a mile
We laughed away the hours, runnin’ to and fro
Tell me baby, where did the good times go?
I can still remember summers in the shade
Winters by the fireplace, the promises we made
You said, you’d always love me, what happened, I don’t know
Baby, where did all the good times go?
Where did all the good times go? Where did they go?
Tell me, woman, if you know, where did the good times go?
I can still remember summers in the shade
Winters by the fireplace, the promises we made
You said, you’d always love me, what happened, I don’t know
Baby, where did all the good times go?
Where did all the good times go? Where did they go?
Tell me, woman, if you know, where did the good times go?