How many times a day do you ask, “What would it take? You know that saying about unconsciously competent? It’s like I’ve been doing it so long that all of a sudden I intend for everything to happen, like I really am choosing my life all day long. Consciously choosing it, you know. If I’m working on somebody what I’m choosing is for all their blocks to release, right. If I’m eating food I’m choosing for it to be a nourishing rewarding experience. If I’m calling somebody on the phone I’m choosing for it to be nourishing and rewarding. So everything in my life is pretty much a What Would It Take?
Maria says, “Do we need to say, ‘what would it take’ out loud and focused?” Well for sure Maria. You have to believe it when you’re saying it. So it feels like if you say it out loud you believe it more. And focused, it feels like you believe it more. So for you I would say definitely. But eventually what’ll happen, I hear, is you won’t have to say it out loud, you’ll just believe it.
Should we focus on one thing at a time? Here’s the thing, you can’t do too much and you can’t really do it wrong, okay. So I’ll give you an example of a What Would It Take session that I would do for myself in the evening. So let’s just say I was trying to manifest an extra $10,000 this month, okay. So we’ll just focus in on abundance for a minute. But I would just say given how I know what my business is, I would say what would it take for an extra $10,000 to show up by the end of September. I would say “What would it take for me to generate 500 new clients finding my website? What would it take for the 500 clients who find my website to feel the love and light that I wish to impart on them? And what would it take for them to want to share in my Love or Above toolkit, right?” And everything in the way of that, uncreate it all.
What would it take for everybody who sees me, hears me, looks at me, finds me, feels love, light and blessings from me and wants more blessings in their life from me? I could be specific; I’d say what would it take for a speaking gig to show up that puts me in front of 2000 new people? And everything in the way of that, uncreate it all.
So I sat down one day and I said, “What would it take for me to reach a million people or over a million people?” And literally within a couple days I got a phone call to be on one of the biggest radio stations in Los Angeles. And I was on the station for about a year every Sunday night. So it could have been 30 million people that I reached, right? Can you see how I’m not really focusing on one thing? I might have an overall theme that I’m focusing on and then when I feel complete with that one item, you know. So I hope that clarifies. You can’t really do it too much.
Maria wants to know why she’s procrastinating because she’s just afraid to move forward. It’s just this little fear about moving forward. You’re waiting for some big ah-ha instead of just going “Shazam”! Okay, so everywhere you guys are afraid to move forward, uncreate and delete all that. Anywhere you guys are waiting for somebody to hereby inaugurate you or say you’re it or give you permission to go forward. Everything that is, uncreate and delete all that.
JC’s asking if she’s procrastinating because she’s afraid or just lazy. Actually you’re not lazy. I heard you’re a little angry because you really want to change but you’re afraid to change and you’re angry that you have to change because you still, at the end of the day, wanted everything to happen the way you wanted it and now you’re a little angry that it’s not going to happen the way you want it. So you’re actually kind of a little angry is what I’m hearing. So anything in the way of you guys moving forward because you’re a little angry that you have to change, uncreate and delete it all.
Yeah how many of you guys are angry because you actually have to change? Everything that is, will you uncreate and delete it all? Everywhere you guys are mad because things in the past didn’t work out the way you wanted them to, everything that is, will you uncreate and delete that across all time, dimension, space and reality.
What’s the best thing to do when you notice that you’re believing that nothing will change? Well it’s kind of like you’re going to have to do two things. You’re going to have to say, “What will it take for everything in my life to change?” And you’re going to have to say, “Everything in my life that’s stopped or stuck, I uncreate it all. Delete it all. Everything I’m avoiding I uncreate it all.” Because usually if you’re stuck it’s because you’re avoiding something, right. So I would do change, clear changing. Clear what you’re avoiding and clear what you don’t know.
Ned wants to know, this is the same question I have by the way. Why are some people so against changing themselves? Do they have some intractable belief that keeps them stuck? Do they not have enough desire for a better life or perhaps believe they are not capable of changing? So Ned is asking really the most profound question. And the real truth of the answer is I want you guys to all tap into yourself right now, okay.
So connect to the light, be 300 feet tall. Connect to the heart of the matter, the truth of the matter, the part of you that knows everything. I want you to ask, “Why am I refusing to change?” And what I’m hearing is most people have a conclusion, which is a belief by the way, they’ve made the conclusion that I have no idea how to change, which is not true because if you really think about it, you guys are changing at every moment of every second of every day. You breathe you change, right.
So any of you guys who taught yourselves, “I have no idea how to change.” Uncreate and delete all that. Anywhere else you guys bought the lie, “I have no idea how to change.” Uncreate and delete it all. Everywhere “I have no idea how to change and I don’t want to change,” uncreate and delete it all. And everywhere your misery is more important than your gratitude for your life, uncreate and delete all that.
Christina asked a really good question again. When I do muscle testing, the questions for the present are mostly correct and the questions projected into the future are a little more inaccurate. And that is true. Do you know why? This is why I don’t really like reading people’s futures because you’re an infinite being creating multiple futures all at the same time. If you read your future and you don’t choose that future all along the way, then that future won’t show up. So you have to understand in every now moment you are creating your future. So that’s why it’s important to always be present choosing things that you really, really, really want to have versus saying things like, “This doesn’t work and I can’t move forward.”
So Christina is saying a guide showed up in a dream and was talking but there was no sound. Okay, so everywhere you blocked the message because you were afraid of getting help, uncreate and delete it all. Everywhere having guides would be scary to you, uncreate and delete it all. I hear anywhere you guys shut off your connection to the light and to your guides and your higher self, uncreate and delete all that across all time dimensions, space and reality.
How many of you are depressed? So anybody who’s depressed and suppressed, not willing to be 300 feet tall and be over it, uncreate and delete all that across all time dimensions, space and reality. What if I feel as though I’m not connecting with any level of the light? Well John it’s actually impossible for you to not be connected because you are light, okay. So I want you guys to all get that you are a light-filled, soul-filled being and piece of the light, right, in a way. So you’re always connected to light. But I can answer the question because it feels like you don’t feel at some level that you are worth it.
So John what it really feels like to me is that you somewhere disconnected yourself and just decided life was hard or not easy or not good. And I’m not sure if you remember when you really disconnected from that. But anywhere that is, uncreate and delete that across all time dimensions, space and reality. And it seems like you turned down your feelings. So everything in the way of you feeling life or allowing it in, uncreate and delete that across all time dimensions, space and reality.
If you start to feel down and things are not coming fast enough, what do you do? You know what I do is I just keep doing a What Would It Take. So I went to a seminar. It was a seminar on negotiating and he wanted to prove to us that we are all able to negotiate money things from anywhere at anytime. Even like a normal store, like a Nordstrom’s or a Macy’s or something like that. So what he did as part of the exercise is he sent us to the mall and he told us that we had to negotiate and buy three items at a negotiated price, less than what they were marked.
So you have to imagine there’s 500 people that he just sent to the mall. So I went into a couple of the stores and I was trying to negotiate things. And you have to understand the people have already met 20 people trying to negotiate things. So all these shop owners are going crazy because they’re like, “Why is everybody trying to negotiate things with me?” I decided deep down inside myself that no matter what it takes, I’m going to be a winner in this exercise. And just for my own personal benefit, even when there are obstacles in my way, I’m going to make the choice to make it happen.
So as soon as I made that choice, deep down I was guided to go into the health club. There was a health club there in the mall. And nobody was going into the health club. There was a certain kind of nutrition that I liked to take. And so I went to the back where the store was and I said, “Hey, do you have this brand of nutrition?” And they did. So I basically negotiated and bought three things and I got two free t-shirts on top of it. I got some extra gifts, some bonuses. And so I basically got five things, you know, instead of the three.
I walked outside the mall and I was asking everybody how they did and they said oh I didn’t so well, you know. And they were giving me all their excuses. You know what I mean? Like oh this doesn’t work and there’s too many people and the shop owner’s this and I couldn’t make it happen and blah, blah, blah, blah. For me it was just proof inside my own self. It was like a cellular imprint that just kind of came over me. I was like, “Okay, now I know what it feels to basically exceed my expectations.” And so there’s a certain feeling in my body when I think of that story that I can go to at anytime to kind of create that energy into my future.
Everybody listening, I want you to just think for a minute of sometime when you really made something happen and it totally excited you, okay. So just think of a moment when you made something happen and it completely and totally excited you. Or something you want and it completely and totally thrilled and excited you. Or a gift you got for your birthday or Christmas when you were a kid and it completely and totally thrilled and excited you.
Okay, so the cellular memory of that, what would it take for the cellular memory of that to increase? What would it take for all of that to increase in your life? That moment, that feeling of pure joy and love and all that, that’s the moment that you can go back to at any time and just like really, really create for yourself a generous abundant future, okay. So her question originally was if I start to feel down about things, what do I do? I go into that energy of I’ll do whatever it fricken takes in order to make this thing happen, right. So it’s like a determinism that’s so deep-rooted that I’m going to make it happen. That’s personally what I do and then I take action.
Everywhere you guys are blocked on taking some sort of action or some affirmative stance that I’m going to do whatever it takes in my life, uncreate and delete all that. David wants to know how he can break free from the block that’s holding him back from being his true self. How can I break free from a block that’s holding me back? You know David I’m actually just feeling like you need to move into a higher vibration energy a little bit more. It just feels like you just need to really be joyful and happy. And then everything kind of comes from that. So I would play a little more.
Grace is saying at one point I said the left side of her body was related to mom. Is it cleared? Mostly, yes. But Grace it feels like you just have to say what would it take for me to love my body and for my body to love me. And have a relationship with your body. Like think of your body like a pet and love it everyday. So it feels like you just need to really love your body and talk to it and then ask it to tell you things about what it needs. Because your body will happily show you what it wants for food, what it wants for exercise, what it wants to drink. You know your body will happily show you those things if you ask it questions. That’s generally how I do my life is I ask everything questions and it will tell me.
Anka, okay, so what is the unfinished business that I still have with my family? Why do I get so irritated whenever I talk to them over the phone? Anka it’s because they have a really kind of negative vibe sometimes. It feels like their energy is they don’t like life either. So you’re just going to have to like really get that whenever you talk to them you’re going to have to uncreate and delete everything that makes you mad about it.
Sarah’s asking a question, can our spouses be the blocks? I think I should leave him but I’m still finding it hard to trust myself. He’s very negative. Nobody can block you unless you allow it. But oftentimes people will be blocked by their parents or spouse because they still want their spouse or their parents to love them. And in order to get love you lower your energy to meet where they are instead of getting over them and being bigger than they are and allowing them to catch up to you.
So anywhere you are blocking yourself, okay. So it’s not that he blocks you, it’s that you’re blocking yourself. So you don’t have (break in audio 00:14:09) yourself so you don’t have to make a choice to leave or not leave because then you can remain incompetent and incapable and then it won’t be your fault. So really what you’re doing is you want to be a nice person and you don’t want to be the one that hurts anybody. So everything that is, uncreate and delete all that across all time dimensions, space and reality.
So if I were you I would do what would it take for me to clear all my blocks to believing that he’s more important than me. What would it take that would make me genuinely and truly happy in my life? And then I would focus on growing myself before I left the marriage. So I would focus on myself until I got really strong and then make the decision from a place of strength.
I’m going to say that with a caveat to anybody listening who just heard that. If you’re being abused obviously do not stay in an abusive situation, okay. You know it feels like somebody is going to take what I just said and I don’t know, I just picked up that somebody might be being abused. And you shouldn’t stay in anything that’s abusive. Good question Sarah.
Isabel wants to know how to release the family curse that her sister was told exists in her genetic lines. I would just keep saying, “What would it take for whatever is blocking me and my family from moving forward, uncreate and delete it all.” So any of you guys listening who have genetics blocking you, uncreate and delete all that across all time dimensions, space and reality.
All of you guys who are listening who have no hope for the future because you keep choosing to procrastinate your future and deny that you are the chooser of it, everything that is, uncreate and delete all that across all time dimensions, space and reality.
Okay, how can I get friends when I never had anyone? I do not know what to do. What I’ve been doing is not working. Okay, Sabrina, that’s a really great question. You know and if any of you guys are parents by the way, I would really suggest this. I think confidence can be taught to kids. I remember this shy little girl and I watched her interacting at a friend’s house and I came across this little girl through friends more than one time. And what I noticed is she always hung out by herself because she really didn’t know how to go get friends.
So what I did is one time without the adults around or embarrassing her, I just had a little chat with her and I said, “Hey, do you know how to make friends?” And she’s like, “Well nobody likes me.” And I go, “Oh well why do you think that?” She had an older sister who was always kind of hitting her and doing all those kinds of things. So she thought nobody liked her so she wasn’t going to get new friends.
And so what I told her is I gave her a couple little tips. I said, “Look, it’s easy to play with people if you just kind of compliment them; tell them something that you like about them and then ask if you can play.” So I taught her how to compliment people to kind of open the door. Because she was going to really shut the door. If you say, “Oh I like your dress.” Or “Oh you’re so pretty.” Or oh blah, blah, blah. So I had her practice with me a couple of times. And I like saw this light bulb come back into her eyes and it was like she got the download, you know.
So the reason I’m bringing this up is because I see a lot of kids and they just don’t have the confidence to go talk to people. And I think that’s a skill that you can teach them. So that’s the way it felt like to tell that girl is talk to her about complementing somebody and it opens them up. And so she got really good at complimenting people at first and then it opens people and they can see who she was; that she was a lovely girl, right.
Any of you guys who have problems creating friends, manifesting friends or if you’re blocked by the life skill to create new people to like you, uncreate and delete it all. So let’s just say I don’t know you but I notice something that I really like about you and it’s genuine. You know for girls we love shoes and clothes and handbags right. So I say, “Wow, that’s a really great handbag you have. Where’d you get it? I love it.” Or, “Wow, you have such style.” Or if you’re a guy you could just say something about, “Wow, you’re a bright light.” Or “Wow, you’re kind of glowy today.” So practice complimenting people or being grateful for something.
Like what if you guys practiced giving a couple compliments to your family members? That would seriously change your family life if you complimented your family. So Sabrina, that’s my answer to you. So you’re going to have to put yourself in places where you can meet new people, somehow. You could do coffee shops. You know the book How To Win Friends and Influence People. You know he basically talks about how in any conversation if you just talk about the other person and ask what’s important to them more than talking about yourself, people basically want to be received by other people. And the way to make a lot of friends is to really be open to receiving them.
See the reason people tell me all their problems is because my energy is set to the place where I can receive people. No matter what junk they got going on, I don’t judge them, I just love them right. So that’s what people feel from me; that I don’t do judgment and I just love people.
So Sabrina I would just really try to get out in public a little bit more and go to coffee shops and just start talking to people and something will happen.
Aliah says, “What do I do to get rid of an ex out of my life?” You’re going to have to just keep booting him out for a little while. And the only way to do it is trust it and do it and trust it and do it and trust it and do it and eventually somewhere he’ll go away.
So Aliah, really the most important thing I can tell you right now is you really, really, really just have to do the work and know that it will work, okay. So you might not be there all the way yet but I promise you if you keep just doing the work, eventually it all turns around, okay. Because you’re talking yourself out of doing the work by not trusting yourself. But you should be proud of yourself.
Nicholas, “What can I do to bring more fun to my life?” But I took a comedy class at UCLA because I thought it’d be really funny to be a psychic and a comedian all at the same time. Because I actually still think that would be funny. But then my business picked up so much that I didn’t have time to pursue both.
I was trying to get the download about what fun is or what comedy is or what funny is because there was some block that I had about seeing what was funny. Because what was happening is a lot of people were trying to be funny by the negative way and I didn’t want to be funny the negative way. I wanted to be funny the positive way. Kind of like Ellen DeGeneres; she’s funny in the positive way. And it seemed like everybody in my class was doing funny the negative pessimistic way. And I’m like, “God I can’t do that funny. I don’t want to do that; I don’t want to pick on people.”
I got this download that I realized that fun and funny is actually just an energy field. And if I held this energy field in my field and I told stories, people would laugh for no reason. And I’m thinking, “God this is so not funny. Like why are they laughing?” And it’s because I brought in the energy of funny. So at that point Nicholas what I really, really, really realized is the energy of fun is just an energy. And if you can embody that, you can have fun doing anything.
So now I know the logical part of everybody listening is going, “Well how do I embody fun?” So I would just do over and over again, “What energy of fun can I receive that would change my whole life.” And everything in the way of that, delete it all. What energy of fun can I receive that would improve and upgrade my whole life? And everything in the way of it, delete it all.
And the other thing that I have done in the past, I will go hang out with little kids because little kids have fun energy. And then I will duplicate whatever they’re doing. Kids have fun doing anything. So you know it’s just kind of a certain energy frequency is really what I’m trying to impart upon you. So you know how at the mall they have the place where the little kids are playing? Go play with the little kids.
How can I heal a sick pet? Basically you can bless a person, you can bless a pet, you can bless an animal, you can bless a plant, you can do all those things. But they have to be open to receiving. Now I want you to think about nature. Nature is very open to receiving, usually a lot more than us because we have more points of view. So how do you heal a sick pet? Well it depends. I mean a sick pet can be sick because of either toxins from their emotions that they pick up from other people around them. Or they can be toxic from whatever you fed them or whatever they’ve ingested in their body, right. So you have to either heal it from food and nutrition or from energy, and so I’m just hearing in your case that it’s a little of both. I mean I think the dog’s body has to be cleaned out at some level with nutrition. So you might want to go talk to a vet about that as well.
What do we do to help our society, which seems to be more entitlement driven while not contributing to the growth of society as a whole? That’s a really great question. You know this is really funny, I was reading an article today about the guy who basically was a principal and what he did was gave up his salary. It’s a long story. But let’s just say he basically gave all his salaries and benefits back to the school district, which over his lifetime would be like $820,000 so that it could help balance the budget and keep a lot of the school programs going. They were interviewing him and he does like all this philanthropic things on a very low salary. And people are wondering like how does he do that and there’s not that many people like him. So it just kind of showed me the same energy that you’re talking about, William, which is like why can’t we all be kind to each other and somehow contribute.
You know there’s different levels of contribution. There’s contributing to ourselves. And you can do this. I mean this is kind of how I look at my life. I make a little goal list for my year and I ask what can I do to contribute to myself. That’s question number one. Question number two is “What can I do to contribute to my family? What can I do to contribute to the world? What can I do to contribute to nature and everything that supports me?”
So then I just make a choice every year what that would look like in my life and I kind of break down when I say contribute to society, I have like two pictures. I have my local society where I live and I have like the big picture society like the world. And so I break it down into what I can do to help in all those different levels. But that’s a really great question because when you give you’re also receiving at the same time if your flows are totally opened. So when I’m doing all this unlimited abundance, you guys can probably imagine that I’m also receiving the downloads, right? So my giving creates this flow where I’m also receiving simultaneously. So giving and receiving simultaneously is obviously the ultimately goal. So a really good question William.
I would encourage you guys to really think in the next six months what can I do to contribute to my family? What can I contribute to my society like my town and state, that kind of thing. And then what can I contribute to the world and what can I contribute to nature. Because I think mother earth needs blessings and attention from us. I really do.
Arthur is saying he hit a wall. You know thank you Arthur for phrasing it the way you did. He said, “I hit a wall. What is the shift that needs to happen and can my challenge also contribute to others?” So thank you Arthur for including all of us in your thing. It has to do with your mom; an imprint in your mother that you can’t really receive.
So I would do everywhere my mother doesn’t let me receive things, uncreate and delete it all. Everywhere I’ve lowered myself to fit my mom’s model instead of my own, I uncreate and delete all that too. And everywhere I can’t see what my next step is, I uncreate and delete all that. So I would just keep deleting and un-creating everywhere your mom’s energy blocks you from receiving for a couple of weeks. And then I would say what would it take for me to be an excellent receiver of my good? What would it take for me to be an excellent receiver of my finances? What would it take for me to be richly rewarded? And what would it take for me to reap what I sow?
JC wants to know if there’s some universally mantra. Well you can do, “What would it take for all of my life to be joyful, abundant, happy, loved and kind to myself. Everyday and everyway my life is better and better and better is a good one.
Okay, Sarah Dell, you’re asking a really great question. She’s asking why can’t you just go bam and clear everything all that once. So there’s two sides to that story. So the answer is you could go bam if you’re really, really, really, really willing to let it all go and just go that next level and bump into the next stop. So there’s always a part of yourself that’s totally attuned, totally perfect, totally aligned that you can just go “Shazam!” and just kind of bump into it. And then you might ask, “Well why don’t I?” If you guys go back to the day when we connected to your future self, that would be the best way to probably get into that self, the one that’s happy, alive, well, abundant and already made it.
If you have 3000 thoughts a day and 3000 thoughts a day times 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 years, you can see that’s why you’re a little stuck. But the truth is these energy clearings have changed people way quicker than anything I’ve ever seen, truthfully.
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